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By Sandy Dunlop — Better Game Golf
Golf consistency isn't something you find by scrolling through tips on social media. I know, because I've tried that approach, and it simply doesn't work. What I'm talking about is something deeper: the round that's waiting to come out of you becoming the new norm, not a once-or-twice-a-year accident. I've gone from a 12 to a 6 handicap by working through approximately 30 fundamental changes in my use of body, with probably 10 more I've forgotten about and 10 more I haven't yet discovered. That is what real golf consistency looks like from the inside. It's demanding. It's non-linear. It is, in the best possible sense, a mountain to climb. But the view from partway up is extraordinary.
I'm not just interested in the occasional great round coming out once or twice a year. I want that round that's waiting to come out to become the new norm. That framing matters, because it shifts your entire relationship with improvement. You stop chasing a fluke and start building a floor. Most golfers have caught a glimpse of what they're capable of. A front nine that felt effortless. A run of holes where the ball went exactly where the mind saw it going. The question isn't whether that golfer exists inside you. It does. The question is whether you're willing to do what it takes to make that golfer the standard rather than the exception.
This isn't about becoming Rory McIlroy or Scottie Scheffler. It's about you surprising you. That's the real promise of genuine golf improvement: performing at a level beyond what you ever thought was possible. And to get there, you have to be honest about why the occasional glimpse stays occasional. It stays occasional because nothing fundamental has changed. The underlying movement patterns, the habitual responses under pressure, the compensations built up over years of playing, none of those have been touched. The great round snuck through despite the system, not because of it.
If you're not willing to put the work in, you can go back to the tips approach. God knows you only have to turn on your feeds and there are thousands of them. I've tried that, and it simply doesn't work. Tips operate on the surface of a deeply rooted system. They address symptoms, not causes. You might patch one fault and create two more. You might see a short-term improvement that evaporates the moment you play under any meaningful pressure.
The reason tips fail isn't a lack of good information. It's because the brain, when it matters, will always select what it knows best. And what it knows best is not what's optimal; it's what's familiar. Your nervous system is wired for what's called satisficing: getting a good enough result. Being better than you ever thought you could be isn't satisficing. It's optimising. That distinction is everything. And it means real golf consistency requires working against some very deep-seated tendencies in your own bodymind.
Most golfing habits are so hardwired that you don't even know what they are. They're unconscious. They're taken for granted. They're so familiar that you don't have to think about them anymore. So what you're dealing with is something you genuinely don't know. And every instinct in your bodymind is set up not to change it.
This is compounded by what I call faulty sensory perception. When you try to do something new in your swing, it's going to feel wrong. What feels right is wrong, and what is wrong feels right. Your proprioceptive sense reports back based on familiarity, not accuracy. If you've spent twenty years with an arms-led swing and you try to shift to a posture-led one, your body will scream at you that you're doing it incorrectly, even when you're doing it exactly right. I've written about this in more depth in the article on why your proprioceptive sense lies in golf, and it's one of the most important things any golfer trying to change can understand.
Real improvement therefore requires a systems thinking approach. Not fixing this, then that, then the other, one fault at a time. Recognising that a golf swing is a coordinated whole, and it can only be changed as a whole.
The Alexander Technique is, in my experience, one of the most powerful and least understood tools available to a golfer committed to real change. It's based on the work of FM Alexander, an Australian actor who lost his voice and discovered, through careful observation, that even the thought of going on stage caused his head and neck to tense and shrink into his shoulders. The postural and movement work that followed is now used by professional actors, musicians, and singers worldwide.
What makes it directly relevant to golf is its approach to inhibition and conscious direction. It offers a unique way of involving the mind in its vital relationship with the body, what's called Conscious Guidance and Control (CG&C). It directly addresses the vice-like grip of habits. Rather than simply trying to do something new, which usually means layering a new instruction over an old habit, the Alexander approach first stops the habitual response. Inhibit first. Then direct. That sequence is what makes change actually stick. I've explored this more fully in The Two-Pillar Approach to Golf Improvement: Golfing Bodymind and Alexander Golf, and it underpins everything we do at Better Game Golf.
What we've done with the Better Game Golf approach, combining the Golfing Bodymind and Alexander Golf, is break the whole challenge down into five body maps. All the changes involved in the rotation of the body, mapped into five. This is how you make something that could feel impossibly complex into something you can actually work with systematically.
Each body map addresses a different aspect of integrated movement. Within each map, you work on directions: the things you need to consciously guide your body to do. And equally important, the inhibitions: the things you've got to stop. There are multiple directions because it's all about antagonistic pulls. Something moving this way while another moves that way. Something staying still while another moves. These aren't isolated mechanical instructions. They're relational, they exist within a system, and they have to be learned as part of a system.
The changes I've had to make personally include getting my posture right (the unity line in relation to gravity was a series of compensations), changing my excess of rotation, and, fundamentally, like Nick Faldo did in the 1980s, switching from an arms-led swing to a posture-led swing. These are not small adjustments. They are deep structural changes in how the bodymind operates. You can read more about how posture underpins everything in Why Your Golf Posture Is Built Before You Step on the Course.
Within this framework, what you're always working toward is what I call positions of mechanical advantage: the positions where posture, joints, and muscles are aligned correctly, where the body is working with gravity and rotational physics rather than fighting them. This is the model of good movement that you're building toward.
This matters because without a clear model of what you're aiming for, you're just randomly trying things. One of the principles I return to constantly is that every golfer needs a model, not just tips. Positions of mechanical advantage give you that model. They're not abstract ideals; they're specific, learnable, and when you reach them even briefly, you feel the difference. The ball flight tells you. The sensation tells you. And crucially, you can begin to internalise what that feels like, so that it starts to become the new habitual.
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Alongside the technical directions and the model of mechanical advantage, there are integrating metaphors that can speed the whole process up. These are images and ideas that help the bodymind grasp what you're working toward without the interference of analytical thought.
This is where the connection between mind and body becomes most vivid. A good integrating metaphor bypasses the analytical brain and speaks directly to the body. In my work, I've found that the right metaphor at the right moment can unlock something that months of technical drilling hasn't shifted. I've written about some of these in What a Tent, a Bow and Arrow, and a Murmuration Reveal About Your Golf Swing, and if you're serious about the journey, I'd strongly recommend exploring that piece. The bodymind learns through image and feeling as much as through instruction.
This is where many golfers' improvement plans fall apart. Changes made in the purple zone — movement away from the course, in everyday life — are valuable. What you work on in everyday life, you do bring to the practice ground. But it's not enough.
Changes made in the grey zone — the practice ground or the driving range — are important but still not enough. It's not enough in a friendly game either. You've got to make changes under pressure. These new approaches need to be so internalised that they become the habitual. This is how you play when it matters most. That is the definition of real golf consistency: not what you can do on the range on a quiet Tuesday, but what you do when the card comes out and something is at stake.
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Inhibition in the Bodymind sense is not a psychology term about repressing things. It's a practical, physical, moment-to-moment discipline. It means pausing the automatic, habitual response long enough for a new direction to take its place. You can't build the new habitual on top of the old one. The old one has to be interrupted first. Every single time.
This is one of the hardest things I've found in my own journey, and in working with golfers. The habitual response is fast. It's confident. It feels like it's going to work. And in that split second, inhibiting it requires a quality of presence and attention that most golfers have never trained. This is why the mental and physical work cannot be separated. This is why I use the word bodymind: the mind in the body, not the mind in the brain. Separate those two and neither changes deeply.
One of the things you learn from systems theory is the concept of false start: things getting worse before they can get better. This is not a sign that your approach is wrong. It is a predictable, expected, normal part of genuine change. When you interrupt a long-established pattern and begin installing a new one, the old system resists. Performance wobbles. Scores may go up. Shots you thought you had will temporarily desert you.
If you go into the journey without expecting this, you'll quit. Almost everyone does. The false start is the mountain's first serious test. It's the point where golfers retreat to their old patterns and call it pragmatism. Understanding it in advance is one of the most protective things I can offer anyone setting out on this path. Also worth reading in this context is Nick Faldo's Two Years in the Dark: The Mental Side of a Total Rebuild, because Faldo's story is one of the most vivid real-world examples of what false start actually looks like at the highest level.
From the world of mythology comes Joseph Campbell's concept of the dark night of the soul: the dark night where everything feels like it's falling apart. In the language of the hero's journey, this is the deepest point of the descent, the moment when the old world has been left behind and the new world hasn't yet arrived. It is part of the journey. It is part of climbing the mountain.
What gets you through the dark night isn't technique. It's will. It's the glimpses of what's possible that you've had on the way up. Not compensatory OK outcomes. Glimpses of real potential. Those moments when the new pattern clicks in under pressure and you see, just for a shot or a hole, the golfer you're becoming. Those glimpses are what you hold onto. They're the reason the mountain is worth climbing.
And when the change has truly become the new habitual, when the round waiting to come out has become the new norm, that is what this journey is all about.
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Positions of mechanical advantage are the specific body positions where your posture, joints, and muscles are aligned correctly, working with gravity and the physics of rotational movement rather than fighting them. In practice, this means your spine is at the right angle, your joints are loaded rather than jammed, and your muscular system can generate and transfer force efficiently. For most golfers, the positions they habitually arrive at are a series of compensations. My own unity line in relation to gravity was exactly that: a set of adjustments my bodymind had made over years to produce an acceptable result despite underlying misalignment. Positions of mechanical advantage replace those compensations with something structurally sound. When you reach them, even briefly, you notice it. The club feels lighter. The swing feels easier. The ball flight is different. They're the model you're always working back toward, and internalising them is what makes golf consistency possible at a deep level rather than a lucky one.
In psychology, inhibition often means suppressing something. In the Bodymind sense, inherited from the Alexander Technique, it means something much more active and physical. Inhibition is the practice of pausing your habitual movement response long enough to allow a consciously directed one to take its place. When you stand over a chip shot, your bodymind has a stored programme for how to play it. That programme fires automatically, and it fires fast. Inhibition means interrupting that automatic firing, creating a gap, and in that gap, consciously directing the new pattern. It sounds simple. It is extraordinarily difficult to do consistently, especially under pressure. The habitual response feels right, feels confident, feels like it will work. Inhibition requires trusting a new direction that still feels unfamiliar and therefore wrong, precisely because of faulty sensory perception. It's the practical core of how Conscious Guidance and Control (CG&C) actually operates in the bodymind, and it's why real change is so demanding and so rewarding when it takes hold.
The clearest sign is that it holds under pressure without you having to consciously manage it. In the grey zone, on the range, any change can look like it's taken hold. But the test is always the competitive situation, the moment when something is on the line. When the new pattern fires there, without interference from the old habitual, that is when you know the change has genuinely embedded. There's also a feeling quality to it. The faulty sensory perception that made the new movement feel wrong begins to resolve. What was once unfamiliar starts to feel normal. What was once the habitual response starts to feel slightly effortful or effortful in a different way. You're also looking for it to survive the false start periods, the moments when performance wobbles and the pressure to revert to old patterns is strongest. If the new direction holds through those moments, it's genuinely becoming the new habitual, which is precisely what golf consistency, at this level of work, is built on.
The Alexander Technique is based on the work of FM Alexander, an Australian actor who lost his voice and discovered, through meticulous self-observation, that the very thought of performing caused his head and neck to tense and pull downward, disrupting his entire posture and breathing. The principles he developed from this observation are now used by professional performers worldwide. What makes them so directly applicable to golf is that golf is also a performance discipline under pressure, and the same patterns of habitual tension and postural collapse that ruined Alexander's voice ruin a golf swing. The Alexander Technique addresses integrated movement through inhibition and conscious direction. It works on the relationship between the head, neck, and spine, which is foundational to everything else the body does. At Better Game Golf, we draw specifically on the Initial Alexander Technique, particularly the work of Jeando Masaero and Penelope Easten, combined with the Golfing Bodymind framework. Together, these form the two-pillar approach to real, lasting physical-mental change.
First, understand that this is normal. Systems theory calls it a false start, and it is an expected, predictable stage of genuine change, not a sign that your approach is wrong. The old pattern is being disrupted. The new one isn't yet automatic. In that gap, performance wobbles. Scores may go up. Shots may desert you. The mistake most golfers make is interpreting this as failure and reverting. What gets you through is a combination of understanding and will. Understanding that the dark night of the soul, as Joseph Campbell framed it, is part of every real hero's journey. And will: the determination to press through the times when things are worse, because on the other side, when the change has become the new habitual, the golfer waiting to come out becomes the new norm. Practically, it helps to hold onto your glimpses, the moments when the new pattern fires cleanly and you see what's coming. Those are your evidence. Keep them close when the dark night is deepest.
This approach is for any golfer who is genuinely committed to real, lasting change. I want to be clear about one thing I believe strongly: there are many ways to improve. The systems theory concept of equifinality means the same end can be reached by a variety of paths, and this is one of them. It's not the only path. What it does require is willingness to do deep work rather than chase tips. A high handicapper who is willing to engage with the five body maps, with inhibition and direction, with the zone colour system, and with the reality of false start will make more genuine progress than a single-figure golfer chasing the latest technique fix. The entry point doesn't matter. The commitment does. That said, if you're a high handicapper looking for a starting point into the mental-physical integration work, Golf Flow State for High Handicappers is a good place to begin, alongside starting your free trial and letting the AI caddie walk you through the foundational concepts.
The zone colour system describes where you are when you're working on your game. The purple zone is movement away from the course entirely, in your everyday life. This is where you work on posture, integrated movement, the directions and inhibitions from the five body maps, in daily situations that aren't golf. And it counts. What you work on in everyday life, you do bring to the practice ground, and you do bring to the course. But it's not enough on its own. The grey zone is the practice ground or the driving range. Here you're applying the work in a golf context, without the stakes of competition. This is essential, but it is still not the final test. The final test is making changes under pressure, in competition, when the card is out and something matters. That is where golf consistency either exists or doesn't. Real change has to travel all the way through the zone colours and hold at the sharp end. That full journey is what the mountain is about.
The mountain is real. But you don't have to climb it without a guide. Start your free 7-day trial at bettergamegolf.com — let Sandy's AI caddie walk you through these concepts on your next round.
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